The Sacrament of
Holy Matrimony

The Eastern Orthodox wedding is one of the Holy Mysteries (Sacraments) of the Church. In this sacred service, the bride and groom are united by God, receiving His grace to begin their life together as husband and wife.

The Church understands that it is Christ Himself who joins the couple through the prayers of the Church and the blessing of the Holy Spirit. Every prayer, hymn, procession, and symbolic act carries profound spiritual meaning, revealing that marriage is a journey toward holiness—a lifelong path of love, sacrifice, faithfulness, and salvation.

Below are some of the most meaningful moments of the service and what they represent.

The Betrothal

The service begins with the Betrothal, during which the priest blesses the wedding rings and places them on the bride and groom's right hands.

The Koumbaro or Koumbara (Sponsor) exchanges the rings three times, symbolizing the unity of the couple and the witness of the Church.

The rings represent an unbroken bond of love and fidelity, reminding the couple that their commitment is meant to endure throughout their lives.

The Crowning (Stefana)

The crowning is the central moment of the Sacrament.

The priest places crowns (Stefana) upon the heads of the bride and groom, proclaiming, "The servant of God is crowned..." The crowns are exchanged three times by the Sponsor.

The crowns carry several meanings:

They signify honor and glory as the couple begins their new life.
They represent the "crowns of martyrdom," reminding the couple that true marriage requires self-sacrifice, humility, forgiveness, and putting one another before themselves.
They also symbolize the establishment of a new "little church" within the home, with Christ reigning as its true King.

The Candles

The bride and groom each hold a white candle throughout much of the service.

The candles symbolize Christ, the Light of the World, and remind the couple that He should illuminate every aspect of their marriage. They also represent their willingness to receive God's light and to live lives of faith together.

The Scripture Readings

Two passages from Scripture are proclaimed during the service.

The Epistle (Ephesians 5:20–33) teaches that marriage reflects the loving relationship between Christ and His Church. Husbands and wives are called to mutual love, respect, and unity.

The Gospel (John 2:1–11) recounts Christ's first public miracle at the Wedding at Cana. By His presence and blessing, Christ sanctified marriage and revealed that He desires to be present in every Christian home.

The Joining of Hands

The priest joins the right hands of the bride and groom while offering prayers.

This signifies that God Himself is joining them together in a sacred union.

The Common Cup

The bride and groom share a common cup of blessed wine.

This recalls the miracle at Cana and symbolizes their shared life together. From this moment forward, they will share both life's joys and its hardships, remaining united in every circumstance.

The common cup also reminds us that Christ is present in the marriage and blesses the couple's journey together.

The Dance of Isaiah

This joyful procession is the couple's first steps together as husband and wife, with Christ and His Gospel–represented by the Priest carrying the Holy Gospel–at the center of their lives.

Walking in three circles symbolizes eternity and the Holy Trinity—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—whose presence and blessing sustain Christian marriage.

During the procession, hymns are sung honoring Christ, the Holy Martyrs, and the Incarnation.

The Final Blessing

At the conclusion of the service, the priest removes the crowns and offers prayers that God will preserve the couple "in peace, unanimity, and love."

The newlyweds receive the blessing of the Church as they begin their shared vocation of marriage—a lifelong journey of growing together in faith, serving one another in love, and striving toward the Kingdom of God.

Marriage is not viewed as a destination but as a sacred path, one on which husband and wife help each other become more like Christ.

More depth...

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Marriage in the Orthodox Church

"So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."
Matthew 19:6 (NKJV)

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The Sacrament of Holy Matrimony